“Then the other disciple also went in, the one who had arrived at the tomb first, and he saw and believed” (John 20:8).

Tradition teaches that the other disciple was John, the author of this gospel and whose feast day we celebrate today. We do not know for sure what he saw that led him to believe. He mentioned a couple of times the burial cloths, including the one that covered Jesus’ head “rolled up in a separate place.” 

The cloths were there but Jesus was not. The rolled-up head cloth apart from the other burial clothes may seem an insignificant detail but even something that small could have caused the light bulb to go on in John’s mind. If someone stole Jesus’ body, they would not have taken the time to roll up the head covering, also thieves would most likely not have taken the burial cloths off a dead corpse. It would have been much easier and less revolting to carry the body with the burial clothes still in tact. Could it be that his body was not taken as Mary Magdalene had thought, and if this body then was not taken and the tomb is still empty, then Jesus conquered death and rose from the dead!

What is most important is that John saw something that led him to believe this truth, and this belief came to him before he experienced Jesus coming to them in the upper room. 

God communicates with each of us personally and uniquely as well. There are small and seemingly insignificant happenings in our everyday moments in which God is speaking to us, revealing to us his presence, and confirming that he is close. These are not mere coincidences but God-incidences. They also often happen at opportune times when we are discerning, needing a confirmation, or just an affirmation that we are not alone. 

“[T]he disciple whom Jesus loved”, again we believe to be John, “saw and believed.” A good practice for us today is to make some time to be still and remember times when we have experienced when Jesus has drawn close and communicated in some way at an opportune time. May we trust in his presence and resist the temptation to discount the God-incidences that we have experienced, be open to his reaching out to us in many and varied ways, and so come to believe as John did. Believe that Jesus, whose birth we celebrate this week lived, taught, died for us and  indeed rose from and conquered death, loves us, and is with us right now and will be by our sides in all we do.

Photo: Evening Rosary walk last night.

Link for the Mass readings for Wednesday, December 27, 2023https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/122723.cfm 

“And the Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us” (Jn 1:14).

Today, Christmas Day, is what we have been preparing and anticipating for all of Advent. We celebrate today that the Word, Logos, in the Greek, who was, who is, and who always will be, the Second Person of the Holy Trinity, has become human while remaining fully divine. We are the minutest of minutest speck of specks present in the whole of the cosmos. And yet, we are graced with each breath we take to be intimately known by God our Father. He loves us so much that he sent his Son to us to become a human being for each and every one of us, each individual person, so that we in turn can become one with him. He became human that we might become divine through our participation in his life.

The Mystery we celebrate today is that this Word, did not just appear to be a man for a time and cast off his humanity like a cloak. The Son was conceived in the womb of Mary, developed as you and I did, and when born let out a gasp and a cry indicating that our Savior was born to us in a unique time and place. Joseph and Mary gazed in wonder at the gift of their Son, the gift of the Incarnation for the whole world.

Christmas Day and the season that follows is the celebration of new life. Not just the birth of any baby, but through his coming into the world, a new beginning for humanity and creation. We do not just celebrate the baby who would become a great teacher and moral mentor, but the coming of our Savior and the truth, the reality, and the hope that although we may be wounded and even broken, we have not been undone, not unmade, not destroyed. We are not worthless to be tossed away, but we have been saved from our traumas, fears, doubts, insecurities, and freed from our slavery to sin. God’s grace is greater than our sins, suffering, wounds, our worst mistakes, misjudgments, and most grievous faults. We are loved more than we can ever imagine!

The Word who became flesh, was in the beginning with God. All things came to be through him, and without him nothing came to be” (John 1:2-3). Jesus, the Son, the Word, knew each of us before we existed. For all – all things came to be through him and everything that he created is good. We as human beings are very good. That means each of us exist as an outpouring of God’s infinite love. We may have trouble believing the truth of who and whose we are because we see on full display that we continue to be a world at war, even in the land of Jesus’ birth. We witness constant acts of inhumanity, injustice, and the fallen nature of our humanity in just a recap of the nightly news.

Yet even while these and so many other challenges both far and away as well up close and personal are happening, these dire episodes of life are not the truth, not the reality that God has intended for us. That is why we began to celebrate last night and continue this morning that “A light shines in the darkness and the darkness did not overcome it” (Jn 1:5). This is a day to hope, rejoice, to reconcile. A day to recommit to the Light, to the baby who would later call himself, “the way, and the truth, and the life” (cf. Jn 14:6).

This is a day to embrace the gift of the promise of our humanity, the gift of our diversity and interconnectedness, the gift of our families, biological and in all but blood, as we embrace this baby wrapped in swaddling clothes. We are one body in the Christ child.

Jesus, the One who saves, is our hope. We can trust in him. Change and healing happens by first allowing him to forgive, redeem and transform us. As we surrender to him, trust in and receive his love, we are invited to reach out, not in some abstract way, but to share his love and healing touch person to person as Jesus does with us. In so doing, we reflect and spread the Light we have received.

Jesus shows and imparts to us the truth and realization that: “We cannot save ourselves. We can only open ourselves to the hope that comes to us from without, from others, ultimately from one Other” (Lohfink 2014, p. 255). The One other who was willing and continues to be willing to come close, whose birth we celebrate today. The One who is Jesus: “The Light of the human race” (Jn 1:4).

Photo: From our family to yours from St. Philip Catholic Church, East Windsor, CT – Christmas Vigil Mass.

Lohfink, Gerhard. No Irrelevant Jesus: On Jesus and the Church Today. Collegeville, MN: Liturgical Press, 2014.

Link for today’s Christmas Day Mass readings from the Mass of the day for Monday, December 25, 2023

We come to the fourth Sunday of Advent which will carry us right into the Vigil of Christmas this evening. Today we hear one more time the proclamation of the promise fulfilled. In our first reading from Samuel, God speaks to David through the prophet Nathan. Nathan tells David that God will build a house and a kingdom and a throne from his line that will “endure” and “stand firm forever” ( see 2 Samuel 7:16). The psalmist echoes God’s promise that he will establish his “throne for all generations” (see Psalm 89). And in today’s Gospel, the proclamation of the Archangel Gabriel rings aloud again to Mary the fulfillment of God’s promise:

“Behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall name him Jesus. He will be great and will be called Son of the Most High, and the Lord God will give him the throne of David his father, and he will rule over the house of Jacob forever, and of his kingdom there will be no end” (Luke 1:31-33).

As the sun sets this evening, the readings of Advent will come to a close for another year. They have been our guide to relive the promises that God has made to his people through all generations that he has created a people for himself to be loved and to love. This evening and tomorrow we are invited to celebrate again the fulfillment of this promise that God chose a specific time and place to establish his kingdom on earth through the heir of David, and as Gabriel said, he is the one who was called Jesus – the one who saves.

Our loving God and Father has sent his Son to come close, to enter the fullness of our humanity to free us from our sin. Jesus came close to forgive us and lead us back into relationship with his Father through the love of the Holy Spirit. With the celebration of the coming of our savior into the world this evening, we celebrate the coming of the invitation to our redemption and salvation.

Jesus has come to save us, but as we have seen, we like Mary in her encounter with Gabriel, are given the choice. As with Mary all of creation held its breath awaiting her response to collaborate in the incarnation of our savior. This day and this night, creation holds its breath yet again as we are to choose again. Do we trust in Jesus or not? We can dismiss this accounting as a mere happening from the past or embrace the reality that each day Jesus comes to be a light in the darkness and invites us to collaborate with him in establishing his kingdom that “will endure” and “stand firm forever.”

Will we come to Mass today and tonight or tomorrow or not? Will we come in body only, just to fulfill an obligation? Or will we come with our hearts and minds wide open with great anticipation to encounter the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords. He who is the Son of God, the Second Person of the Holy Trinity, God from God and Light from Light, will come close to us again as he did in that manger so many years ago, but now in an even more humble way. Through our gifts of bread and wine and then through the sacrifice offered by the priest, Jesus will be made present again in his Body and Blood so we can receive him.

We are invited to receive and consume him or receive him through a blessing and allow God to happen through us. Our redemption and salvation, our entrance into the kingdom of heaven, begins and continues each time we say with Mary, “May it be done to me according to your word” (Luke 1:38).

With our yes, we receive God’s forgiveness, healing, love and mercy. We are made new each day and grow in our relationship with our savior and Lord and will reign with him forever and ever!

Photo: Mary at St. Rose Catholic Church, East Hartford, CT.

Link for the Mass readings for Sunday, December 24, 2023

All who heard these things took them to heart, saying, “What, then, will this child be? For surely the hand of the Lord was with him” (Luke 1:66).

All “these things” were about the events surrounding the miraculous birth of John: Zechariah’s encounter with the angel and after their meeting not being able to speak, Elizabeth’s conception after years of being barren, and now the unique name, John, given to the child and the return of Zechariah’s voice.

Each of these events led many to wonder about the future of this child. Both his father and mother came from a long line of priests. This infant we now know as John the Baptist did not become a priest like his father or ancestors. He went into the wilderness to preach and offer a baptism of repentance. A ritual bath was not a practice unknown to the people of his time, the difference was that John’s baptizing was not done in the manner that was prescribed by the priests. 

As more came to him, to hear his words, to be baptized, it would have been easy for John to give in to the temptation of the limelight. He, like Mary and Joseph, could have made a different choice, but like Mary and Joseph, John remained faithful to the will of God. He did not grasp for himself what was not his. He said that he was not the messiah and said instead that he would decrease and the One for whom he was even unworthy to untie his sandals, would increase. 

John reflected the light that was to come as he recognized that he was not the light. He was preparing the way. There was no envy in John. From their first encounter with each other in the womb, John leapt for joy at the presence of his Lord. John pointed the way to Jesus even when two of his disciples were asking about him. One was Andrew who became one of the Twelve Apostles. John is pointing the way to Jesus for us as well this morning. 

What then will we be?

Most of us have not had miraculous births like John or Jesus. Yet, we are beloved children of God. He has called us to be his own. There is a mission he is preparing us for and a path that he his preparing us to walk. Are we willing to surrender our lives to Jesus as Mary, Joseph, and John did? Are we willing to be purified like gold and silver? Just as the impurities are burned out of these precious metals, are we willing to allow the purifying fire of the love of the Holy Spirit to purify the partial, that which is not true in us, so that all which is not of God will pass away? Are we willing to trust?

Each yes, each apparent or false truth, and inordinate attachment we let go of, the more of our fears, insecurities, and lies that we have been believing in that we renounce, will further clear the path for us to receive more of the love of Jesus. 

This is our Advent walk. Faithful by faithful step, let us trust in Jesus more so that our false selves will decrease and the truth of who we are and who God is calling us to be will increase! 

Photo: Evening Rosary walk around Lake Mary at Bethany Retreat Center, Lutz, FL.

Link for the Mass for Saturday, December 23, 2023

“And how does this happen to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me” (Luke 1:43).

Elizabeth speaks these inspired words to Mary when Mary first arrives after coming in haste to share the news that she like Elizabeth is celebrating a miraculous conception. John the Baptist leaped in her womb as Mary approached, just as David danced before the ark of the covenant when it was being brought back into Jerusalem.

As St. Ambrose wrote: “The women speak of the grace they have received while the children are active in secret, unfolding the mystery of love with the help of their mothers, who prophesy by the spirit of their sons.”

We can also share in the great joy of Mary, Elizabeth, and John for Mary, the mother of our Lord, comes to us. Mary has come in miraculous ways such as at Fatima, Lourdes and Tepeyac but she also comes to each one of us as well. 

She comes to lead us to the blessed fruit of her womb, Jesus. He who has been born to save us can now be born in us. “A soul that believes both conceives and brings forth the Word of God and acknowledges his works” (St. Ambrose). 

Then let us believe, conceive, and radiate the joy we receive from our growing relationship with Jesus. 

Photo: Starting to look a lot like Christmas at St. Peter Catholic Church, Jupiter, FL.

Link for the Mass readings for Thursday, December 21, 2023

The readings this week have been filled with messages from angels and in each account have been sharing the good news of new life. The word good news or gospel comes from the Greek euangelion. Eu means good and angelion means news. Angelos, deriving from the same source as angelion, means messenger. Angels are messengers of the gospel, the good news. They receive and are sent by God to deliver his good news.

In today’s gospel from Luke, the archangel Gabriel has come to bring incredible news and because Mary ascents with her, “Yes.” a savior has been born for us in space and time. The incarnation, the Son of God becoming man, is what we are preparing to remember and celebrate in five days! This good news that we hear each year is not only good news to celebrate but through receiving this truth we are invited to have our lives transformed.

The reality that the Son of God became one with us in our humanity so that we can become one with him in his divinity is an incredible reality that we are invited to participate in. Each day we are invited like Mary was to receive Jesus, to receive his transforming light and infinite love, and like John the Baptist to become less so that Jesus can become more.

Strictly and metaphysically speaking, we are not angels. Angels are spiritual beings and not physical. We as human beings are spiritual and physical beings. Because Jesus became human, lived, suffered, died, conquered death, rose from the dead, and ascended to heaven fully human and fully divine, we then who participate in his life, participate also in his divinity and so are higher than the angels. Good news that Lucifer the archangel did not receive well and so became Satan, the accuser, opposer, or adversary, and why he and those angels who followed him rebelled.

As human beings, we too are given free will as are the angels. We may reject or accept the gospel. When we say, “Yes” that is only our first step. We too then are invited to evangelize like the angels, and like Mary in going in haste to Elizabeth, to share the good news of what Jesus is doing in our lives.

We are invited each day and throughout the day to breathe, receive, rest, and abide in God’s love. Then in our interactions with one another allow God to happen through us. A smile, an attentive ear, a shoulder to lean on, a willingness to be present, to be aware, and to offer to be of help, are simple ways that we can do little things with great love and so with Mary, the saints, and the angels, help to bring to earth what is practiced in heaven – the communion, unity, and love of God.

Painting: The Annunciation by Henry Ossawa Tanner, 1899

Link to the Mass readings for Wednesday, December 20, 2023

Both the wife of Manoah and Elizabeth have the same problem. They are barren. And for Elizabeth, she like Sarah, the wife of Abraham was in “advanced years.” Mary, was the opposite. She was very young, 13-15 years and still a virgin. In each of these cases, God would intercede and bring new life.

Each child to be born would have a special role in God’s plan of salvation history. Isaac would be the beginning of the fulfillment of the promise of God to Abraham that of his offspring he would make a great nation. Sampson, the son of Manoah and his wife would be one of the judges of God’s chosen people. John the Baptist, the son of Zachariah and Elizabeth would be the last in the line of the prophets and according to Jesus, Son of God and Son of Mary,: “I say to you, among those born of women there has been none greater than John the Baptist” (Matthew 11:11).

In each situation, God brought new life where it seemed impossible and further implemented his plan to restore and bring humanity back into communion with him.

The Season of Advent is a time of anticipation and hope. We are preparing and waiting, watching and praying, for the coming of Jesus at the end of time, we are preparing to remember again and celebrate his first coming, all the while our day to day lives continue. We seek his presence in the here and now.

Our readings today and all of Scripture invite us to strike a healthy balance in our lives as we seek to encounter Jesus in our lives. When all is going well and we are experiencing times of consolation, we are to be humble and thankful. We are to offer God thanks for our blessings, knowing all that we have comes from him. In our humility, we are also to look ahead while we feel the closeness of God for those times when all will not be going well and life gets bumpy.

We are to prepare as Joseph, the son of Jacob, the son of Isaac, the son of Abraham and Sarah did. He stored up the surplus of grain for the time of famine that would come and so saved his people from starvation.

When we experience trials and tribulations, when we do not feel God close, when we slip into times of desolation, it is then we are to trust that God has not abandoned us but remains with us. We are also to trust that he also may be allowing these challenges to bring about a greater good, to strengthen us, and our trust in him. He will also provide what we need, empower, and lead us, even when all seems lost.

As we walk together through these final two weeks of Advent, may we open our hearts and minds to the guidance of the Holy Spirit and follow his lead and pursue a healthy balance of humility and thanksgiving when all is going well and trusting in times of challenge. May we continue to recognize that we are blessed and loved by God and his presence in our lives.

Let us be assured and confident that no matter what challenges or trials may lie in wait before us, those on our radar as well as those surprises that may arise, that we will face them with our loving God and Father at our side. Let us also know beyond any and all doubt, that as with those who have gone before us, we also have a part to play in God’s plan of salvation history and with him, all things are possible.

Photo: Sun shining brightly again Sunday! Even when the sun is blocked by the clouds as we experienced this past Thursday to Saturday, it is still there. It is the same with God. Trust he is present even when we may not be experiencing him. 

Link to the Mass readings for Tuesday, December 19, 2023

There are no recorded words of Joseph in any of the gospels and yet he has much to say to us about faith. Mary and Joseph were betrothed to one another, which is not the same as in our modern context of being engaged. Betrothal meant that there was already a binding contract between the man and woman and their families. The only distinction was that they had not yet moved into the same home as man and wife. There was no set time for a betrothal, but most lasted up to a year.

This is why, “Joseph her husband, since he was a righteous man, yet unwilling to expose her to shame, decided to divorce her quietly” (Matthew 1:19). They were married, and Joseph, not believing Mary’s account regarding the origin of her pregnancy, which must have been shocking news for him, decided not to stay with Mary. While at the same time, he did not want to make a public spectacle of her either.

Joseph made his decision but wisely waited before acting upon it. That is the only window of time that God and a weary and fallen world needed. God sent his angel to Joseph in a dream who confirmed what Mary had said. “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home. For it is through the holy Spirit that this child has been conceived in her. She will bear a son and you are to name him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins” (Matthew 1:20-21).

What may be two of the hardest things for us as human beings to do, is to resist reacting to unexpected and shocking news and once we have reacted and made a decision, to change course. Joseph didn’t believe Mary and reacted, but he also didn’t rush into putting his choice into action.

That Joseph was as open as he was to the angel also points to the fact that Joseph was a man of prayer. That Matthew calls him a righteous man, the term meaning rightly ordered with God and his will, would also support that. Joseph had faith and trusted in God’s plan even though it was hard for him to understand.

Before making any rash decisions, especially when we are still feeling emotional, it is good to step back from the situation and seek God’s guidance. Even when the situation, as one such as Joseph found himself in, seems impossible, it is important to seek the counsel of Joseph’s son, who he named Jesus, Yeshua, One who saves. It is important to trust God’s plan even if at first it does not seem to make any sense.

Jesus can save us from ourselves when we give ourselves some time to calm down, to slow down. He works best with us when we have already established a rhythm of daily prayer and deepened our relationship with him. We will choose best when we have firmly in place the point of discernment that says we are to make no changes while we are angry, distraught, or in a time of desolation. Let us ask for the intercession of  Joseph and Mary today and ask them to help us to trust in God’s plan for our lives, to seek the guidance of his Son, and embrace the love of the Holy Spirit.

Photo: Holy family outside Chapel of St. Mary, St. Vincent De Paul Regional Seminary, Boynton Beach, FL.

Link to the Mass readings for Monday, December 18, 2023

At the beginning of Mass, we lit the candles of our Advent wreath. Some of us may have our own Advent wreaths and family traditions that go with them. Some of us may not. But all of us have an Advent wreath with the candles of Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love that has been placed within our souls with the purpose to burn brightly.

Just as we need to be attentive to actual candles, the same is true for the ones in our souls, if not the flames can dim and even go out. And where there is no light, there is darkness.

We are in the third week of Advent, Gaudete Sunday. Gaudete means rejoice, so the third candle which is rose in color stands for joy. During this time of year, we can easily slip into feeling overwhelmed, overtired, or overworked; anxious, frazzled, or stressed; sad, lonely, or regretful as well as many other emotions. Each of these can lead to experiences of feeling desolation and our flame of joy can begin to dim.

If we may be feeling any one or all of the above this morning, first we need to realize that in and of themselves, these emotions are not bad. They are actually helpful as long as we identify them, address the needs they are alerting us to, and then discern and decide how best to take care of them.

The first group of being overwhelmed can be the easiest to address if we are aware and willing to step back, take a break a get some rest. Just as a lumber jack needs to stop and sharpen their axe from time to time so as to work more efficiently, taking the time to stop and rest is just as important.

Feeling anxious and stressed as well as sad and lonely, can be a bit trickier to identify, but again when these feelings arise, stopping, breathing and praying about what is going on is a good first step. Talking to someone we trust can help us to get a better perspective.

Often the challenge is that our perception is off. The flame of our candle of joy weakens when we are looking at what we don’t have, what we can’t do, that we don’t measure up, and/or that we don’t think we can accomplish that which is before us. Ultimately, we are believing in lies that isolate us from the truth of who and whose we are.

If you remember, Peter walked on water as long as he kept his eyes on Jesus. Once he focused on the wind and the storm, he began to sink. Fortunately, he called out to Jesus and Jesus pulled him back up. When Peter was focused on Jesus and not his fear, he was on target.

This perspective is what Advent is all about. Pope Francis wrote in the opening lines of his encyclical, The Joy of the Gospel, that “THE JOY OF THE GOSPEL fills the hearts and lives of all who encounter Jesus. Those who accept his offer of salvation are set free from sin, sorrow, inner emptiness and loneliness.”

When we make a firmer intent to watch and pray for the coming of Jesus in our lives, he will strengthen and transform us such that any doubt or depression will be replaced with hope, any anxiety with peace, any sadness with joy, and any indifference with love.

It is important to remember that when we acknowledge and recognize any doubt, stress, sadness, desolation, or indifference that this is not an invitation to get down on ourselves. This is the first step to countering and turning our gaze back to Jesus. Once we are aware, we can then make steps to identify what we are feeling, examine the source that may be causing it, and then decide that we want to change and ask Jesus for his help to do so. We need his help to do so.

Another practice that has helped me is to take time each day reading and praying with the Mass readings of the day. You can even just read the readings of Sunday starting on Monday in preparation for the following Sunday. Ask the Holy Spirit to give you a short sentence or phrase as you read. When one comes to you, stop there, and begin to prayerfully memorize it. Return to it often during the day. Write it down on an index card or sticky note and carry it with you. Create a file in your Notes app on your iPhone and keep these verses there.

This practice helps our focus to stay on Jesus, and when any thoughts of anxiety, doubt, or stress, begin to arise, we can return to our verse. Be patient, like any practice this will take some time and discipline. But as Mary told me, and now I share with you. “Each time you show up, God will happen.”

The readings of Advent are a good place to start. Each of them is leading to the coming of Jesus into the world his first time. When we spend time reading and praying with these accounts each day through the year, our relationship with him grows so that our flames will be stronger no matter what wind of circumstance comes to blow them out.

Here are three simple but powerful phrases from today’s readings that can be helpful to start with.

“The spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me” (Isaiah 61:1).

“My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord (Luke 1:46).

“Rejoice always.” (I Thessalonians 5:16)

Let that first verse sink in. “The spirit of the Lord God is upon me.” Receive that word from God, know that you are a beloved daughter or son as you are right now. Know that he loves you more than you can imagine. Any thought that arises from the contrary is a lie.

I invite you to receive one of these gifts today, rest with one of these verses, or revisit the readings and choose one of your own and see what Jesus may be inviting you to experience. Just as healthy food nourishes our bodies, the words of Scripture nourish our souls. When we meditate upon the word of God and consistently bring a word or phrase to mind often, we are inviting God to dwell with us and to transform us. In the beginning, you may not feel or experience anything, it may be enough just to try to remember a few words to carry with you. If you stay with the practice, you will experience times of consolation and the light from your candle of joy will shine brightly. We can’t force God’s consolation and joy to well up within us, but we can place ourselves in a posture and disposition to receive his grace.

Another powerful way to receive the joy of the Lord and to encounter Jesus is to receive his Body and Blood in the gift of the Eucharist we are about to receive. If there is a particular emotion that has been dimming your flame, bring it to the altar and surrender it to Jesus as you receive him or his blessing. Invite him to begin to transform you with his gentle and loving embrace.

Step by step this Advent, let us raise our candles high and shine the light of Christ in the way we interact with one another. As we receive and grow in his hope, peace, and joy, may we prepare next week to breathe, rest, abide in and share his love. The love of Jesus is the best gift we can receive and give to one another this Christmas.

Photo: Chapel at Bethany Retreat Center, Lutz, FL.

Link for the Mass readings for Sunday, December 17, 2023