What is common to all of us is our loneliness. We all experience some expression of loneliness to varying degrees consciously, or mostly unconsciously. We are social beings, we want to belong, to be part of, we are communal at the core. We will do, say, or turn a blind eye to behaviors that go against our conscience to be accepted, acknowledged, or noticed. This behavior further feeds our loneliness, because though we may indeed be accepted, we become more alienated to our self.
At the core of our being, what we all seek is to be loved and to love. We strive from the moment of our conception not only to exist but to actualize the fullness of our potential. Through our time of gestation we are not potential human beings, we are human beings actualizing out potential. The only difference between me typing this now and me in my mother’s womb is that before and after my birth, I was smaller and more vulnerable.
We as human beings are a living, craving hunger and desire to be in communion with God and one another from the moment of our conception until our natural death and continuing on into eternity. This is true to the believer and the atheist alike. Until we embrace this deepest of needs and desires, we will be restless, anxious, unfulfilled. We will feel isolated and alone, even in the midst of a hundred people or daily likes on social media.
God has made us for himself, and constantly invites us to be in relationship with him and with each other because he is the foundation and source of our being. Sin is the turning away from that invitation. It is also the unwillingness to bother, to reach out toward another in need. For what we do to the least of our brothers and sisters, we do to God. We are not just pro birth, we are pro life, and we are invited to promote a consistent ethic of life.
Jesus came to show the importance of the dignity of the person and that it is grounded in our relationship with God our Father, meaning we are all brothers and sisters. Jesus was not plan B, but he was always the primary plan. In the fullness of time, when God so willed, he sent his Son who became one with us so we can become one with him. Jesus is the face, hands, and body of God. He came that we might see and experience God. Jesus experienced all we experienced except for sin, because he never in any act rejected the Father. His whole life was a yes to the will of God. Jesus is the bridge, the way to love and be loved, authentically.
In today’s Gospel, Jesus continues his farewell discourse. He prepares his disciples that he will be returning to the Father, and that he will not leave us alone. He will be with us for all ages. This is so because as the Son of God made man, in his Ascension, he returned to the Father not just in his divinity as the Son, but also in his humanity. God created all of humanity and his creation as being interconnected, and because of that, we all experience this transcendent act of the Ascension.
Jesus shared with his disciples: “When the Advocate comes whom I will send you from the Father, the Spirit of truth who proceeds from the Father, he will testify to me. And you also testify, because you have been with me from the beginning” (Jn 15:26-27). Jesus is talking about the Holy Spirit, the third person of the Trinity, the embodiment of infinite Love experienced and shared between the Father and the Son. We become sharers in this divine love and communion of the Holy Trinity through our participation in the life of Jesus.
As we experience and enter into the love of God and develop a relationship with him we begin to feel alive, we begin to heal and to feel whole, because we have experienced the love we have been made for. We have experienced being loved for who we are as we are. We no longer have to say, do, or accept those actions that we don’t agree with that go against our conscience, to belong. Blessed John Cardinal Newman has stated that our conscience is the Aboriginal Vicar of Christ. Jesus dwells within us, to guide and lead us. He encourages us to say yes to his Father as he has and continues to do.
This Trinitarian love that we share because of our participation in the life of Jesus, this great gift, will continue to grow as we testify to this love and share it with others, give it away, and the more we give, the more we will receive. We share the love of God by being willing to accompany one another. That does not mean fixing others or their problems. We are to be present, to accompany, and journey with others, meeting them as Jesus met others and meets us, as and where we are. We are to laugh with, to cry with, to encourage, empower, and support, but above all to be present, to allow God to happen through us.
Jesus has not left us orphans. His return to the Father has given us access to the Holy Spirit, the love shared between the Father and the Son. By saying yes to his love, trusting in his love, we free ourselves from the tendrils of fear and anxiety. We are not alone when we say yes to God and develop our relationship with him. As we do so, we continue to actualize the fullness of our potential, we become who we were created to be, and we become truer to ourselves. We experience that peace that surpasses all understanding and develop relationships with others based on authenticity and integrity, regardless of external pressures and experiences. We are loved and we love in return, which is what we all seek, which is who we are called to be.
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