“…the sheep follow him, because they recognize his voice” (Jn 10:4). This verse is one of the keys to growing in the spiritual life and becoming a disciple of Jesus. Amidst all the voices, distractions, diversions, and temptations clamoring for our attention, we want to develop an ear to hear and a mind to discern his voice. There are so many directions we can take and opportunities we can be enticed by, many that are detrimental, but more challenging are those that are good in and of themselves.
Jesus came to us so that we “might have life and have it more abundantly” (Jn 10:10). To live life to the fullest, to actualize our potential, we need to be able to discern the distinction between apparent goods and the true Good. An apparent good is appealing, attractive, and desirable, though once experienced, we conclude that it was indeed not good for us after all. We can see this in the promotion of processed foods, with additives and an excess incentive of enticing the taste buds with salts and sugars.
The experience of eating many of these products is that they taste good going down, especially if eaten quickly and not savored, such that we often eat them in excess. They not only have little, if any nutritional value, if this is the main source of our nutrition, over time, we will feel the ill effects of eating in this way. When I sit down to eat pizza, there are two clear voices. One voice encourages an eating of the whole pie in one sitting, while another urges a balanced two-slice approach or no slices at all.
There can also be choices between two actual goods. Discerning in each of these areas can be a challenge especially when we make the time to assess how we spend our time, talent, and treasure. We all have the same amount of time in the day. In what ways do we use our time, who is it that we are listening to? What are we investing our treasure in? How do we, or do we access and engage in our talent? Do we listen to the Father of Lies or the Good Shepherd?
A good practice to help develop our ears to hear the voice of the Good Shepherd is to resist making impulsive decisions, no matter how small. When a desire presents itself, instead of impulsively choosing, take a breath, reason it through, pray with Jesus, and seek his guidance. Too often, we skip the step of our reason and prayer, and dive right into the act of our will. Some helpful questions can make a difference: “Is what I am about to decide helping me to become a better disciple, leading me away from or closer to God, to be true to myself and who God is calling me to be?”
Putting this simple step into practice will help us over time and through various experiences come to better discern the voice of Jesus. Inviting a core group of people to talk with, to get their perspectives, to help keep us accountable, can also help us to learn to hear the words of Jesus through others.
May we have ears to hear the Good Shepherd’s voice today, and each day, and the courage and humility to follow his will!
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Photo: Have been blessed again with another wonderful evening to slow down, breathe, and pray; St. Vincent de Paul Regional Seminary, Boynton Beach, FL.
Link for the Mass readings for Monday, April 22, 2024